Single Lifestyle – the Choice is Yours


The Choice is Yours!

As a single individual journeys alongside the pathway of life they should constantly make decisions which can finally cause them to, or have an effect on their future. In this text I need to take a look at the lives of some single individuals and evaluate their selection of way of life and its impression on their future. We will take a look at the selection, consequence and the remedy for every way of life.

Lifestyle M: One foot in a single foot out

The Choice: James is a brand new Christian and really loves God but in addition he really loves a few of the issues he used to do. Before he turned a Christian he notably loved intercourse. Now he can’t think about how it’s attainable to have a relationship that’s “God’s Way”!

The Consequence: He stands out as the father of many infants. He might get a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD) and he might expertise emotions of guilt and frustration, as he’s torn between life, making an attempt to surrender one for the opposite. The most harmful Consequence of all is religious demise.

The Cure:      P Corinthians H:17 – James wants to recollect he’s a brand new creature

                        Ephesians A:22-24 – He must postpone what’s of the previous man

In brief: face the problem, assume it via, and make that change!

Lifestyle P: Dress to Tease

The Choice: June loves sporting the newest fashions. She has gone past the boundary of the respectable into the scanty. She has made up her thoughts – she won’t be an previous maid! Therefore she thinks the much less she places on, the extra the probabilities of her being picked.

The Consequence: She won’t be taken significantly, and if approached in any respect, it is going to be for the mistaken causes. She has made herself a prey for abuse and/or misuse by the fallacious man.

The Cure:      M Timothy P:9a – June can get a number of recommendations on dressing right here

                        M Peter A:A – She wants to seek out her true worth

                        Proverbs 31:25 – The secret to dressing nicely

In brief: gown nicely, add worth to your life and you’ll be discovered by a Boaz!

Lifestyle A: The Superficial

The Choice: Byron has chosen to give attention to the superficial issues of life. His second identify is Bozo. He enjoys presenting himself as a person of substance however actually he’s shallow. In depth discussions scare him…in any case he could be found.

The Consequence: A shallow relationship. An empty way of life. A superficial friendship.

The Cure:      Matthew 10:sixteen – Byron is a wolf in sheep’s clothes.

                        B Samuel sixteen:S – Listen to the Lord, he is aware of the within

                        James M:H – You don’t need to be a part of your future to instability!

In brief: spot him/her… and run in your life!

Lifestyle A: No Hope

The Choice: Jane didn’t truly select to get thus far however as a result of she allowed the cares of life to dictate her feelings, she has now misplaced hope. Due to nobody having spoken to her in 5 years she will’t see the purpose in taking good care of herself. Doing her hair or make-up is a no-go space. 

The Consequence: Whilst inside magnificence is of nice significance, outdoors look is usually assessed first. Other penalties embrace melancholy and discouragement because the perpetuation of not being requested continues. Low vanity may also manifest as the will to satisfy an individual isn’t met.

The Cure:      Job 14:14 – Jane must carry on ready patiently for there’s an appointed time. If Job had his, she could have hers

            Romans A:21 – God just isn’t a person that He ought to lie, He is trustworthy to His phrase regarding her life

In brief: concentrate on the now and develop self on the best way to the place you’re going

Lifestyle H: Commitment Phobic

The Choice: Maggie has not been capable of shut the door on a yesterday relationship. She meditates on it and thinks by means of it repeatedly. She doesn’t need to attempt once more for worry of one other break up. She claims she is married to Jesus and needs all of the ‘satans’ to go away her alone.

The Consequences: She is unable to decide to anybody and due to her worry of involvement many suitors have emotional scars for having dated her. She has turn into bitter and nothing could make her come out of her fortified tower.

The Cure:      Hebrews 12:15 – Free your self of bitterness, it destroys you and people round

                        Ephesians A:23 – Let yesterday die and permit your spirit to be renewed

In brief: yesterday is within the grave, tomorrow is within the womb, so seize at the moment and make it rely.

Lifestyle S: Steadfast

The Choice: Joseph is assured on the best way to the place he’s going. He is aware of he has milestones on the journey and is following his targets one after the other. He is an effective good friend to all, enjoys the environment of worship and serves faithfully in Church. The dedication to God he exhibits in church is identical at residence, the place he prays and seeks to know God for himself.

The Consequences: As he walks with the Lord, on the applicable time, he’ll see, be seen and suggest to the right will of God for his life. He could have ready for her arrival and she or he would be the Queen of his home, a help to him. Should any problem come up, they’ll each go to the producer – the supply who introduced them collectively – God.


The Cure?      None prescribed, that is the place all of us want to be.

In brief: With God because the third individual of their relationship, they may stay fortunately ever after!

So now let’s say:   The Choice is yours!

                                    To rejoice or to cry

                                    To carry your head up or to bow

                                    To reside or to only exist

                                    To reside a dream or to stay a lie

                                    Seize the day, select God’s method